Within our facility their are a number of "relationships of love" sprouting up. But I know that with our facitility, when the family fills out the paperwork, there is a sheet that express that these things might ocurr. At that time, if it occurs, we contact the family and we make a choice per realtionship. I know that within our facility that there very functional realtionships that the families seem to be okay with. For most of the residents, it fills avoid that is in their lives. Becasue this void is filled they seem to have a better quality of life and isn't that what we are all about? A better quality of life? Most residents as you know have a 2.5 years left to live once admitted to a Nursing home / ALF. Why not let them keep it?
Here is a question that deals with the topic of sex within the facility. What about the spouse that shows up to see their spouse more or less for a booty call? They don't really come around except for this. What kind of concerns does this bring up?