hi chuck
have you tried wash and ready? it is an activity that the residents seem to enjoy before meals. i place wash clothes in a large bowl. i pour flavoring such as vanilla, orange, mint, lemon you get the idea right. then i add very warm warm water clothes i wring out the fliud and pass them out to the residents to wash thier faces and hands . they enjoy the warm cloths and they get to guess what scent it is. if we get at least two different guesses we have a show of hands or verbal agreements. i get to document for sensory activity, it helps me know who actually still has the function. it jogs thier mind we guess what the scent reminds them on and they have cleaner hands for eating the meal. i hope this us useful