susieq

I started out at a nursing home leading a Christian Bible Study. There was a Jewish lady who could not get out of the room fast enough when I would arrive. Often, I would wheel her out myself. I have always tried to be friendly and respectful, but she wants nothing to do with me. There are two other Jewish ladies who often stay for by Bible Study and we are friends. Now I am doing a practicum in that nursing home. I would like to at least to be on friendly terms with her. She still remains very distant. I wonder if you might have some suggestions to begin a friendship with her. She seems to stay in her room always. I have noticed that she does work some crossword puzzles but I have not observed her mingling with other residents. Any suggestions? Thanks, SusieQ

While doing my practicum, I have found that getting residents to the activities is a challenge all on its own. I have learned to do "tag along" exercises after a discussion or Spiritual Program. The residents are always willing to participate in this change of pace--I usually limit the exercise to 15-20 minutes. I would appreciate any other suggestions to help get residents to activities.