Do you have men only outings?? Like to a car museum, baseball game (can be college or minor league), lunch or breakfast outings. You are right. We offer lots of male oriented activites but they never want to participate. We did go to a AAA baseball game(my fav.) only 3 residents wanted to go. I tried to get some ladies to go also, to try to entice the men, but to no avail. I also find this depression era bunch very conservative dollar wise so I try to find something that is free or low cost. That is always the first thing I am asked" Do we have to pay?".
Good luck.
Bobbie