Posted 06 February 2009 - 06:55 PM
Hi Vickie,
I work on the Alzheimer’s/Dementia Unit in my building; Transitioning is probably the hardest thing for a person with Alzheimer’s to do. When they are put into a unfamiliar place and do not know where they are or the people around them they become very frightened. Having patience with your little lady and gaining her trust will take time be patient with her let her feel like she has some control over herself if possible let her make some decisions like choosing what she wants to wear and if she cant make choices very well then give her two outfits and let her choose the one she wants,
be careful with the surroundings such as too much noise, the temperature, too hot or too cold, is she in pain, could she be hungry or thirsty? Does she need to toilet? She may not be able to tell you what she wants or needs that will make her frustrated and angry. See if you can talk with her family; make a journal about her life, where she grew up, farm life or city. Community involvement, church groups, her father and mother, sisters and brothers, children ect. anything that would bring back good memories of her past since that is where she probably is in her stage of Alzheimer’s, Having a photo album of pictures with names would probably be helpful, does she like manicures, hand massages, beauty shop, music? Watch her through the day see if certain times or things that are occurring are triggering her behaviors? Oh and the loosing the paper situation, I had a resident who came to the desk probably 40-50 times a day when she first came to us, we gave her a paper too and she would carry it to her room and put it away and then come back and ask us the same question so we took one of the notes and taped it to the desk and redirected her to the note when she approached us about her car keys and her checkbook we placed the note on the desk where she could see it taped it down and redirected her to it when she approached the desk. After a few weeks she was making fewer trips. She still sometimes will come up and tell us her checkbook and car keys are gone and we remind her that her son has them and that helped calm her. I hope some of this has been helpful to you just have patience and God Bless